Sunday, August 2, 2026

10,000 Steps a Day?

 You’ve probably heard the by now accepted view that 10,000 steps will keep you healthy for a variety of different reasons. There is a qualifier there, of course. It’s a matter of how old you are. How fit. How healthy etc., etc., etc. 

The fact remains walking is good for you, if for no other reason than getting you from sitting all day, watching television, or worse, visiting your refrigerator and pantry, too often, out of sheer boredom. 

Looking at the number 10,000 steps, the first thing that will probably come to mind is that it’s an awful lot of steps; and is likely to take a lot of time; and do you really have the time and the energy.

No one can really tell you with certainty how much time you’re likely to take. It depends on your age, fitness, how fast or slow you walk, and even your size. Six foot something will more than likely have a bigger stride than a five foot something.

So while no one can say just how long it will take you to walk 10,000 steps, and in the end who cares, the one thing that really matters is that you walk. And not necessarily 10,000. There are some quibbles as to whether the 10,000 steps should be 8,000, or either, or neither.

As far as health gurus are concerned, even short walks could improve your health and even your mood. The really important part of the walking being its regularity and consistency rather than its length.

And if you haven’t the time, the enthusiasm or the inclination to walk for hours, there are those who suggest there are health benefits even if you walk for five or ten or fifteen minutes when you have nothing to do. And it doesn’t even have to be done out of doors. Walk up and down your hall for a specific time, or from room to room.

Some suggested times when you could slip in that five or ten or fifteen minute walk is before a meal or after a meal or both. And then there are those constant and continuous TV adds that can add up to quite a few minutes. And what about taking your dog for a walk.

The important bit is – take a walk!!!


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Friday, July 18, 2025

A Time to Wed



Married when the year is new, 

he'll be loving, kind and true.

When February birds do mate, 

you wed not dread your fate.

If you wed when March winds blow, 

joy and sorrow both you'll know.

Marry in April when you can, 

joy for Maiden and for Man.

Marry in the month of May, 

and you'll surely rue the day.

Marry when June roses grow, 

over land and sea you'll go.

Those who in July do wed, 

must labor for their daily bread.

Whoever wed in August be, 

many a change is sure to see.

Marry in September's shrine, 

your living will be rich and fine.

If in October you do marry, 

love will come but riches tarry.

If you wed in bleak November, 

only joys will come, remember.

When December snows fall fast, 

marry and true love will last.
-Anonymous


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Monday, June 16, 2025

Why did the Poet Exhume his Dead Wife’s Body?

 

 

The other day I picked up a free little book entitled True Tiny Tales of Terror.

In this pocket-sized book – about eighty odd pages -  I found horror stories as short as two sentences and most no longer than two or three paragraphs. The subject of the book includes horror or terror stories on family life, strange deaths, mature meat and drink, deadly remedies and vile murders.

I don’t know what I expected, but I was certainly surprised to see among these ‘terror/horror’ stories a name I recognized.

It was none other than Dante Gabriel Rossetti. Yes, that artist/author whom we studied back in our high school year. And I still remember the poem The Blessed Damozel who, while blessedly in heaven, is not wholly satisfied, and is pining for the one left behind.

But back to the terror... Two years after Rossetti and Elizabeth exchanged their wedding vows, she died of an overdose – which is another way of saying she chose to end her life.

In his grief – and possibly guilt as well – Rossetti made the sacrifice of burying with her a book of poems he had created while they were living together as husband and wife.

Years go by, and Rossetti is beginning to be recognized as the wonderful poet that he is. So much so that he is being invited to get published. Rummaging among his poems, he realizes there are not enough of them. And remembers all those great poems that are buried with Elizabeth; and how he could do with them.

So, as you would have guessed by now, he decided to dig up his wife’s grave and get those poems.

 Easier said than done.

In the old, old days, you might have got couple of hefty friends to visit the cemetery while nobody was looking and Bob’s your uncle.

In the more civilised world you have to go through more than a few legalities to convince them of your need.

One can only imagine the raised eyebrows at Mr. Rossetti explanation.

After some toeing and froing, the body was exhumed. And the poems were rescued. Needless to say, the pages were somewhat putrid and difficult to decipher, and needed a lot of tender, loving care before they were ready for the publisher.

Once published his work was so well received that the book was republished half a dozen times.

It would be nice to say that after all that Rossetti lived happily ever after. But, he didn’t.

Wednesday, January 8, 2025

Submission Nightmare

Writing a book takes effort. Getting published even more. There are literally hundreds of well-known authors who were rejected repeatedly before finally being published.

To name a few

Harry Potter by J K Rowlings was rejected 12 times.

A Time to Kill by John Grisham was rejected 16 times.

Lust for Life by Irving Stone was rejected 16 times.

Lord of the Flies by William Golding was rejected 20 times.

Dune by Frank Herbert was rejected 20 times.

A Wrinkle in Time by Madeline L'Engle was rejected 26 times.

Gone With the Wind by Margaret Mitchell was rejected 38 times.

Carrie by Stephen King was rejected 80 times,

The Chronicles of Narnia by C. S. Lewis, was rejected hundreds of times.

Judy Blum had to wait 2 years before being published.

Agatha Christie had to wait 4 years before being published.

Alex Hailey had to wait 8 years before being published.

Gertrude Stein had to wait 22 years before being published.

In some instances, with the rejection slip the authors received comments which often were quite personal and highly uncomplimentary about the work submitted.

These days, when publishers are being overwhelmed by manuscripts, instead of receiving a written response, you may be told that if you don't hear anything within so many months, assume that your manuscript has not impressed.

Share your expectations and experiences in submitting your work.

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Sunday, February 25, 2024

His, Hers and Theirs

It used to be, 'They married and lived happily ever after'. Now, what with his, hers, and their children, the wedding day itself is a challenge. His children don't like her. Her children don't like his children. And their children don't know why the other children don't go home where they belong instead of hanging around.

Convincing everyone involved that marriage is going to be the happiest time of all their lives is hard enough. Having the wedding ceremony without some explosive incident is a miracle. But no sooner does the couple sigh with relief, that the wedding went off better than expected, then comes the problem of the honeymoon.

Should the honeymoon be postponed for some weeks, or months, or even years until the various members of the family have accepted each other as a family? Or should the couple actually take the children with them for a family holiday? Even if money is no object, will anyone, including the children enjoy this togetherness?

Even if the couple decide not to take their children with them - which most won't - if the children are at all interested, give them the opportunity to plan the honeymoon with you. That is tell them why you've chosen the particular place. What is so special about it? Do a little bit of research on it so that if it has as any history worth recounting, you'll be able to share it with them. Know enough about the children's interest to give them the details they crave rather than the details that interest you.

Although there is a desire, especially of the couple inundated with problems other than the theme for their wedding, to leave for their honeymoon just as fast as they can, resist this urge. While the urge, especially with an embattled couple is natural, give yourself a day or two to recoup, relax with all your children into a more comfortable mode, and then leave. It won't seem to your children the flight that it is if you don't make such an urgent mission of it.

Incidentally, while on your honeymoon, don't avoid the subject of the children you've left behind. Without being anxious or morbid, of course.

If money is no object, one of the best ways of starting your life together as a new family, is to buy a new house before you leave for the honeymoon. Apart from the anticipation of moving house when you come back from the honeymoon, all your children can take an equal interest in it because it belongs to all of them rather than only some of them.


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