Thursday, October 3, 2013

The high and lows of wedding costs

Anyone reading the Sunday Mail recently would have been shocked to learn that the average cost of a wedding in Australia is estimated at $50,000. Especially when we realise that many first marriages don’t even last ten years.

However, like all statistics this one is only somewhat right. There seems to have been a number of studies on wedding costs, and Sunday Mail has only got part of the story.

According to one survey, only the upmarket average weddings cost $50,000 and more. The average wedding in Australia costs only around $21,000.

Around 60% of weddings cost between $10,000 and $20,000.

And the other good news is that the older you marry the less likely you are to divorce. If you’ve married before reaching 29 years of age, take care. Statistics are against you.

If you’ve over 29 and still single, count yourself lucky. Your marriage, when it does happen, might be one of those ‘happily ever after’

To plan that $50,000 or $$20,000 or even that $200 barbeque wedding in the back yard, check out my great wedding planning book at Smashwords or Amazon.




Wednesday, September 25, 2013

A ring for her and him

The engagement ring tradition for the bride has been with us for many years. And some brides have made a real meal of it.

When Elizabeth Taylor said ‘I do’ for the first time, her engagement ring cost $10,000. By the time she walked down the aisle for the third time, it cost $50,000. Her eighth and last engagement ring wasn’t even mentioned. It was her $2 million dollar wedding that had everyone talking.

With weddings being such a lucrative business, and the engagement ring such a memorable tradition,  great effort was made around 1926 to encourage the groom likewise to start sporting a diamond or two on his right hand.

Despite all the marketing employed, the campaign failed to interest the engaged groom. It was enough for the bride to know that she belonged to him, without his having to remember that he belonged to her.

Interestingly enough, it was Napoleon who had the best idea when it came to engagement rings. Instead of giving her a ring with just one diamond, he gave Josephine a ring with two gems - a diamond to symbolise her, and a blue sapphire to symbolise him.

The setting was known as ‘you and me’, in case Josephine ever forgot.

While in its own time, Napoleon not being particularly rich, the ring had little monetary value, when it was sold recently at an auction, it sold at $949,000.

Here's how it looks.

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Most Famous Bride of them All

Brides spend a lot of time wondering how they can make a spectacular wedding entrance.

Sometimes it's the way they arrive.

One bride, copying Lady Godiva's famous ride, decided to arrive on horseback, riding side-saddle on her favourite horse.

Unlike Lady Godiva, this bride was fully clothed in a traditional wedding gown of white satin and lace.

But is the story of Lady Godiva, which this bride was copying, really true?

Well, once upon a time, back in 1043, there lived a couple by the name of Leofric, Earl of Mercia, and his good wife, Lady Godiva. Very powerful and very rich, the couple were noted for their generosity to religious establishments.

Not satisfied with this, however, Lady Godiva constantly nagged Leofric about the heavy taxes he imposed on Coventry, asking them to be reduced.

Becoming totally exasperated, he decided to shut her up once and for all by suggesting that he would reduce the taxes if she rode naked through the crowded marketplace.

Undeterred, the lady did just that, her long hair, however, covering everything but her legs.

True to his word, Leofric freed the town from all taxes, except one. No doubt being a little bit peeved, he continued to demand taxes on horses.

And while I've never heard of it, here is a movie poster of the film, 'Lady Godiva', starring Maureen O'Hara.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Naming Certificate Fonts

It is my normal pracice, when I conduct Renewal of Vows, Commitment Ceremonies and Baby Naming Ceremonies, to hand out certificates at the end of the ceremony.

In the case of the Vows Renewal and the Commitment Ceremony, the certificate is for the couple as a memento of the day.

For the Naming ceremony, I hand out Certificates to everyone involved in the ceremony - baby's older siblings, Godparents, Grandparents, special people in the baby's life like great grandparents, and lastly to the baby.

To make the certificates even more decorative, I use special fonts which I download free from the Internet. Here is a list of some of them. In some cases I will use only the Capital, while using a more plain font for the rest of the word.

Check out these Free Fonts and download them for your own Certificates and Programs.



Monday, April 29, 2013

Home Wedding

The last couple of weddings I conducted took place in a private home.

When I first became a celebrant, weddings took place in the home more often than not. Sometimes the wedding vows were exchanged in the lounge room itself. If the wedding ceremony was viedographed, we would have an immediate replay as we sat down after the ceremony and watched outselves on the television screen!

If the wedding took place on a property, apart from the wedding guests, we would have neighing and moowing, clucking and hissing from uninvited but interested spectators.

Afterwards there might be a barbeque which ranged from the familiar sausages and rissoles to the less common pig on a spit. Handling the catering could be anyone - from a relative of the couple, to a highly trained caterer dressed up like Jeeves.

These wedding were inevitable happy, friendly occasions as everyone felt at home - even if this was their first visit to the home.

Here is a photograph of the latest bride, accompanied by her bridesmaid. The theme was black and white, and the bride looked extremely elegant in a grecian style frock.



Friday, April 26, 2013

Earn $100,000.00 a year selling E-Books

According to Pat Ritter, an Australian author of 12 E-books, marketing is the answer to selling your E-Books.  In this extract from his article, ‘E-Book Publishing’ he shares his experience on successful e-book publishing.

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Smashwords website became the seed I wanted to grow from my own website.

Instantly I converted the books I’d written into e-books. This process is very simple. First register with the website Smashwords to become a member. Once this is confirmed away you go and publish you book/s. Mark Corker (owner of Smashwords) has written a book to help authors publish their own material and upload on the website.

Once the book is published, click on the affiliate section to have your book distributed by Amazon, Apple, Kobo, Diesel and many others.

Each quarter, first quarter being the end of March, payment is made to your account and each quarter thereafter. It is then a simple process of transferring the money from Pay Pal to your account. Presently I have twelve books published on Smashwords website.

For the past years since I became a self-publisher with Smashwords, a trickle of money has been dropping into my account. It’s a pleasure to see when I view the places my books have been selling, such as Canada, Great Britain, USA, Australia and Europe. It’s exciting to think some person across the other side of the globe is reading a book I’ve written and published.

BrianPratt, a fellow author with Smashwords, initially couldn’t get any publisher to publish his books, so he converted his books to e-books and sells them via Smashwords website. Last financial year his income was $100,000.00.

How did he do it? Marketing. Brian recommended once your books are published on Smashwords website to publish them on Amazon website.


Click and have a look at the books I’ve published on Amazon. At the time of writing my ranking for an author in Amazon is 20,000 from 1.86 million which I’m happy with. These figures change within each hour and fluctuate depended on sales of books.

Marketing is the key to selling books. Facebook is another pathway to promoting your books. For instance, each morning I post a page from a book I’ve written under a group ‘Keeping Up With My Writing’.

If anyone wishes to join this group - send a message on Facebook to become a friend and I will include you into this group. If five readers tell five more readers about my books there are twenty-five more people who will know and you never know where the wave will end – if ever.

Mark Coker also mentioned to join Google Plus, Bing and Yahoo – I have. At first I was a little sceptical – however, what have I got to lose – nothing.

Another latest website to spread the word about your writing is:

Have a look at this one and it is another link toward marketing your books. Next marketing adventure is YouTube – I can’t wait to start.
Pat Ritter
Author/Self Publisher
www.patritter.com.au


Article first published on 'Writers Grapevine', April 2013 Edition.








Thursday, April 11, 2013

25 Vows Renewal Certificates

For the many celebrants who have been asking for Renewal of Wedding Vows Certificates, I have just created 25 Certitficates. Each with a different design, as well as a variety of text to suit different situations and themes.

They come as Word Documents, in the same way as the Baby Naming Certificates.

Whether a couple is celebrating a wedding anniversary, or just renewing their wedding vows to celebrate a good marriage, there is a design or wording to suit the particular situation.

They can be can be mixed and matched and then simply printed out on your own printer.

Each certificate is an A4 document that you can edit as you do the letters you write.