Saturday, December 17, 2016

What Kind of Honeymoon

In my book ‘Honeymoon! A Sizzle or a Fizzle?’ I mention the many types of honeymoon that couples have taken – from the highly romantic, to the most prosaic.

Unusual though it may seem, some honeymoons have been a mixture of business and pleasure. There's the case of Marilyn Monroe and Joe DiMagio. After a proposal which took place at Christmas 1953, the couple married in 1954 and decided on  Japan as their honeymoon destination. It was a bit of a start and stop affair.

After spending their wedding night at a hotel, Joe took his new wife to his family home where they stayed as guests rather than family and then off to Japan accompanied by their best man O’Doul and his wife Jean.

However, while there. Monroe, at that time very much in demand as an entertainer, was asked to travel to Korea and perform for the American soldiers there. She complied, leaving her new husband in Japan, his companions his best man and his best man’s wife.

While DiMaggio, needless to say, was not happy to be left alone on his honeymoon, he himself had decided to mix business with pleasure by accepting to go to Japan in order to demonstrate his baseball s.kills.

Marilyn returned to Japan from her four-day trip to Korea with a slight case of pneumonia. Upon recovery the couple continued their honeymoon, touring some of Japan's smaller villages.

Then I’ve read somewhere recently that a rose grower spend his honeymoon visiting other rose-growers to find out what worked and what didn’t.

Apparently while he was chatting away about the pros and cons of this or that rose, his newly-wedded wife sat in the car tapping her toes; her temper not improved by the fact that her husband never came out with some decent roses for her edification, but with the ailing breeds which he hoped to improve.

We know that Marilyn’s marriage didn't last long: and there’s no information about the rose-grower and his wife.

Business and pleasure might be good sometimes, but whether it works for a honeymoon?........

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Tuesday, December 13, 2016

Avoid that Christmas Party


While Kelvyn and I stopped for a coffee and toasted sandwiches at Kippa Ring Shopping Centre, I glanced through the free copy of Courier Mail where Renard Peters works. 

There I caught sight of a column written by Rod Chester. Apparently, in the name of common sense, he wants to see the end of office Christmas parties as they're organised these days. 

He harkens to the old days when office Christmas parties where time for the gathering of families - often picnics or barbeques held in the open with games and races as part of the day. You know the kind of thing the sack races, the three-legged races, the egg and spoon racers, employees not only getting to know each other better, but getting to know the spouses and the children. A little bit like the Pyjama Game 'Once a Year Day'. 

Now, it seems, the Christmas office party is a time to go 'blotto', 'legless', and seriously, 'over the limit'. 

So, says, Rod Chester, in the name of true Christmas spirit, boycott that office do and the 'one for the road'. 

Adjacent to this column, by accident or design, was an article on domestic violence. And just incidentally ‘alcohol is estimated to be involved in up to half of partner violence in Australia and 73% of partner physical assaults’, and  as for traffic deaths ‘almost 1 in 8 deaths of people aged under 25 is due to alcohol’. 

So to rephrase that song by Johnny Cash, stay away from that office Christmas party, girls and boys. Your family or that other motorist on the road might have reason to thank you, even if they don't know it. 



Sunday, December 11, 2016

Marriage Celebrant OPD 2016 Brisbane.

Attended with Tania Robinson Ongoing Professional Development course conducted by Cheryl Landsberry of AssentTech.  It was held at Brisbane International Hotel at Virginia where years ago I conducted my very first Handfasting Wedding Ceremony. (Incidentally, whatever happened to this one-time popular ritual?)

As usual there were three topics, including Marriage Documents, Networking using Social Media, and Reaffirmation Ceremonies.

The group of fifty or so Marriage Celebrants attending the course from as far as Cairns showed creativity and insights into the celebrancy business.

At the break we enjoyed a varied menu of curries, vegetables, rice, noodles, salads and fresh fruit.

It was a very pleasant way to end the Marriage Celebrant Year. 



Friday, December 9, 2016

Surprise


I’ve conducted many weddings at many different times – but only once on Christmas Day itself. The group of people I saw were all family members who had come together from all over the place to be present.

For about half an hour I was introduced as a friend of the host and hostess to people who were surprised that they had never met me before; and wondered why I was there at what happened to be a family reunion.

Then suddenly, as a familiar piece of music flooded the room, everyone in the room stopped speaking. The surprise wedding had begun.

There will be a lot of celebrating going on in the next month, and here are some bits and pieces that might be of interest.






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Down to Earth


Attended an author talk at the Caboolture Library. The author, Rhonda Hetzel who lives on the Sunshine coast spoke about her books, ‘Down to Earth’ and ‘The Simple Home’. 

According to the Penguin website, ‘Whether you want to learn how to grow tomatoes, bake bread, make your own soap and preserve fruit, or just be inspired to slow down and live more sustainably, Down to Earth will be your guide.’ 

At the same time I learned that the Caboolture Library was celebrating its fifth anniversary this year.



Monday, December 5, 2016

Hotel? Wedding!


My latest wedding took place at Mono Komo, Hotel Redcliffe. 

The setting and set up was very much like that of Belvedere Hotel. In the case of Belvedere Hotel, it was meant to be an outdoor setting, but turned into an indoor setting when the weather wouldn’t cooperate. 

In both cases the same room was used for both the wedding ceremony and the reception, although in the one case the tables were set up immediately after the wedding ceremony. 

Apart from Mon Komo and Belvedere Hotel– both of which are on the Redcliffe Peninsula – other very special hotels where I’ve enjoyed conducting wedding ceremonies include Full Moon at Sandgate, Stanford Plaza Hotel which is on the doorstep of Brisbane City Botanical Gardens; itself a popular place for wedding celebration and Conrad Treasury Brisbane Hotel, a heritage building described as 'the city's  most charming building' and which is also part of the Casino. 

There are many pluses for holding a wedding ceremony at a hotel, including the convenience of having the wedding and the wedding reception at the same place and being able to accommodate those of your wedding guests who intend to stay overnight.

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