Monday, December 11, 2023

The Ultimate Christmas Gift





It’s not hard to believe, with all the Christmas gift-giving, that some people’s thoughts turn to the ultimate gift – the engagement ring kind.

Yes, Christmas time is a time when marriage proposals pop up like mushrooms. Literally billions of people around the world get engaged around Christmas. So if you and your partner are ready to make Christmas THE DAY, here are some suggestions for that personalised wedding ceremony you’ll be planning in 2024 whatever your situation happens to be.

Wedding Ceremony No. 1
1.. Reading
2.. Introduction
3.. Vows of Intent – Vow as a question to Bride and Groom
4.. Wedding Vows as a Promise by the Bride and Groom
5.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
7.. Pronouncement of Marriage
8.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
9.. Bride and Groom exchange a Rose as first gift of Husband and Wife
10. Signing of the Marriage Register
11. Concluding Words
12. Introduction of Couple as Husband & Wife

Wedding Ceremony with Celtic Rituals No. 2
1.. Communal Blessings recited by the guests
2.. Introduction
3.. Handfasting – each ribbon representing a Promise
4.. Wedding Promises by both Partners to each other
5.. Washing the Wedding Rings
6.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
7.. Blessing of the Ring
8.. Pronouncement of Marriage
9.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
10. Signing of the Marriage Register
11. Concluding Blessing
12. Jumping the Broom
13. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony involving Family and Guests No. 3
1.. Lighting the Memorial Candle for absent relatives and friends
2.. Introduction
3.. Vows of Support from parents of the Bride and Groom
4.. Renewal of Vows by Guests
5.. Bride addressing Groom
6.. Groom addressing Bride
7.. Exchanging Wedding Vows by the Bride and Groom
8.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings – with a blessing by the Officiant
9.. Pronouncement of Marriage
10. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
11. Signing of the Marriage Register
12. Concluding words
13. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony including the Wine Ritual No. 4
1.. Introduction
2.. Vows of Intent – Vow as a question to Bride and Groom
3.. Wedding Vows as a Promise by the Bride and Groom
4.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
5.. Pronouncement of Marriage
6.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
7.. Signing of the Marriage Register
8.. Wine Ceremony
9.. Concluding words
10. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony with Family No. 5
1.. Introduction
2.. Children’s promise of support for the Bride
3.. Vows of Intent – Vow as a question to Bride and Groom
4.. Groom’s promise of support for the Bride’s Children
5.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
6.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
7.. Pronouncement of Marriage
8.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
9.. Signing of the Marriage Register
10. Family Sand Blending Ritual
11. Concluding words
12. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony Adult Children supporting Bride and Groom No. 6
1.. Introduction to the Warming of the Ring Ceremony
2.. Bride given away by Son
3.. Introduction
4.. Blessing by Bride’s daughter
5.. Guests’ Renewal of Vows
6.. Vows of Intent – Groom asks the Bride
7.. Vows of Intent – Bride asks the Groom
8.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
8.. Reading by a Friend
9.. Pronouncement of Marriage
10. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
11. Signing of the Marriage Register
12. Concluding words
13. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony and the New Family being formed No. 7
1.. Introduction
2.. Groom’s vow to the new Family
3.. Bride’s vow to the new Family
4.. Vows of Intention
5.. Exchanging Wedding Vows
6.. Exchanging wedding rings
7.. Reading by Groom’s and Bride’s Children
8.. Pronouncement of Marriage
9.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
10. Signing of the Marriage Register
11. Concluding Blessing
12. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife
13. Releasing of Doves






Thursday, May 18, 2023

Money Talks

As we hear of $2 million briberies happening in USA, it's suggested by some writers that bribery of all sorts has tended to be part of America's history. One of the better-known type of briberies have been in the matter of voting for political candidates.

Back in George Washington's time it seems that the bribery took the form of alcohol. Potential voters were plied with alcohol either to stay away from the voting booth, or to attend and cast their vote for a specific candidate.

According to one article George Washington was not in favour of all the drinking that was going on in America, and certainly was not interested in the shoddy business of plying people with drink just to get their vote. In 1755 he lost his first election big time. And apparently learned his lesson.

His second bid to get elected was very different from the first. Instead of expecting potential voters just to turn up on the day and vote for him because he was such a great guy, he did what other candidates were doing, provided them with alcohol. A lot of alcohol. 50 gallons of rum punch, 46 gallons of beer, 28 gallons of rum, and 34 gallons of wine, to be exact.

He won. 




Tuesday, February 7, 2023

St. Valentine's Day - 1 Week to go

 



On the 14th February we'll be celebrating St. Valentine's Day. In many countries in the world lovers will be expressing their love for their partner or their spouse or their would-be lover with greeting cards, flowers, chocolates, and all sorts of gifts - from inexpensive and funny to expensive and serious.

The French, as would be expected, draws lovers to their shores in boat loads since they have a celebrated lover of their own. Some hundred years ago Charles, Duke of Orleans, was captured by the English in one of their frequent skirmishes and imprisoned for 25 years.

While in prison he wrote over 60 poems to his wife addressing her as 'my valentine.' Needless to say, some of the poems were not the cheery types written today as the poor duke was stuck in various prisons, including the Tower of London, with no hope of release till the King chose to let him go. Here's one, for example/

My Very Gentle Valentine

by Charles d’Orleans (c. 1394-1465) loose translation/interpretation by Michael R. Burch

My very gentle Valentine,

Alas, for me you were born too soon,

As I was born too late for you!

May God forgive my jailer

Who has kept me from you this entire year.

I am sick without your love, my dear,

My very gentle Valentine.

 

However, now and then his poetry is more in the style we expect a Valentine's Day poem to be:-

translation by Michael R. Burch

Love of my life,

light of my morning―

arise, brightly dawning,

for you are my sun.

Give me of heaven

both manna and leaven―

desirous Presence,

Passionate One.

Hopefully this article has inspired many lovers out there to try their hand at a poem that unlike a box of chocolates, can live for ever. You have whole seven days to have a go.