Friday, December 15, 2023

Dear Diary

 

I’ve often wondered how this business of ‘Dear Diary’ ever started. I know some very important people decided to put ink to paper their very impressive thoughts, and somewhere down the track felt they had to share those thoughts with the rest of the world.

And then along come authors of fiction who write the whole novel as a diary. One that comes to mind is ‘Pamela’ by Samuel Richardson. The main character is writing literally as the action takes place.

There’s a knock on the door. ‘Help!’ writes Pamela in her diary, ‘A team of mercenaries are breaking the door. Soon they’ll find and capture me. And, after throwing me over their shoulder will take me who knows where?’

Then she hides the diary in her voluminous clothes and waits for the inevitable.

I have to admit, that didn’t happen exactly as I wrote it, but that’s how Pamela manages to keep you interested in her adventures. She’s writing it as it happens.

But diaries have a longer history than used by fiction writers to keep the readers on their toes.

It seems they go as far back as the construction of the Pyramids. Needless to say, such a diary was more a catalogue of what was needed, and how it was transported etc.

One of the earlier personal diaries as we know it, was written by Marcus Aurelius. A Roman Emperor, who, in his Meditations shares his ideas on how to live your life. And even more personal is the Japanese diary known as PillowBooks. Written by a lady it’s all about the happenings at the royal court, which presumably includes pillow talk.

As we come closer and closer to 2024, we find all sorts of diaries waiting for us at Newsagents and other stores. The diaries are varied to help you concentrate on what is important in your life.

The obvious one is the personal diary, where you enter your personal thoughts, your daily tasks, and whatever else catches your fancy.

Then there’s the specific diary dealing with a specific aspect of your life. One is the Gratitude diary, where you concentrate on all the things you are grateful for in your life.

Others include health diary, food diary, hobby diary, travel diary, dream diary, secret diary, cooking diary, bucket-list diary, exercise diary, love diary (keep this one a secret, you don’t won’t your current lover to find out about the other lover), book diary, and last but by no means least work diary.

I’m getting ready to select mine, what about you?

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Monday, December 11, 2023

The Ultimate Christmas Gift





It’s not hard to believe, with all the Christmas gift-giving, that some people’s thoughts turn to the ultimate gift – the engagement ring kind.

Yes, Christmas time is a time when marriage proposals pop up like mushrooms. Literally billions of people around the world get engaged around Christmas. So if you and your partner are ready to make Christmas THE DAY, here are some suggestions for that personalised wedding ceremony you’ll be planning in 2024 whatever your situation happens to be.

Wedding Ceremony No. 1
1.. Reading
2.. Introduction
3.. Vows of Intent – Vow as a question to Bride and Groom
4.. Wedding Vows as a Promise by the Bride and Groom
5.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
7.. Pronouncement of Marriage
8.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
9.. Bride and Groom exchange a Rose as first gift of Husband and Wife
10. Signing of the Marriage Register
11. Concluding Words
12. Introduction of Couple as Husband & Wife

Wedding Ceremony with Celtic Rituals No. 2
1.. Communal Blessings recited by the guests
2.. Introduction
3.. Handfasting – each ribbon representing a Promise
4.. Wedding Promises by both Partners to each other
5.. Washing the Wedding Rings
6.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
7.. Blessing of the Ring
8.. Pronouncement of Marriage
9.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
10. Signing of the Marriage Register
11. Concluding Blessing
12. Jumping the Broom
13. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony involving Family and Guests No. 3
1.. Lighting the Memorial Candle for absent relatives and friends
2.. Introduction
3.. Vows of Support from parents of the Bride and Groom
4.. Renewal of Vows by Guests
5.. Bride addressing Groom
6.. Groom addressing Bride
7.. Exchanging Wedding Vows by the Bride and Groom
8.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings – with a blessing by the Officiant
9.. Pronouncement of Marriage
10. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
11. Signing of the Marriage Register
12. Concluding words
13. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony including the Wine Ritual No. 4
1.. Introduction
2.. Vows of Intent – Vow as a question to Bride and Groom
3.. Wedding Vows as a Promise by the Bride and Groom
4.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
5.. Pronouncement of Marriage
6.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
7.. Signing of the Marriage Register
8.. Wine Ceremony
9.. Concluding words
10. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony with Family No. 5
1.. Introduction
2.. Children’s promise of support for the Bride
3.. Vows of Intent – Vow as a question to Bride and Groom
4.. Groom’s promise of support for the Bride’s Children
5.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
6.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
7.. Pronouncement of Marriage
8.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
9.. Signing of the Marriage Register
10. Family Sand Blending Ritual
11. Concluding words
12. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony Adult Children supporting Bride and Groom No. 6
1.. Introduction to the Warming of the Ring Ceremony
2.. Bride given away by Son
3.. Introduction
4.. Blessing by Bride’s daughter
5.. Guests’ Renewal of Vows
6.. Vows of Intent – Groom asks the Bride
7.. Vows of Intent – Bride asks the Groom
8.. Exchanging the Wedding Rings
8.. Reading by a Friend
9.. Pronouncement of Marriage
10. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
11. Signing of the Marriage Register
12. Concluding words
13. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife

Wedding Ceremony and the New Family being formed No. 7
1.. Introduction
2.. Groom’s vow to the new Family
3.. Bride’s vow to the new Family
4.. Vows of Intention
5.. Exchanging Wedding Vows
6.. Exchanging wedding rings
7.. Reading by Groom’s and Bride’s Children
8.. Pronouncement of Marriage
9.. Bride and Groom exchange a Kiss
10. Signing of the Marriage Register
11. Concluding Blessing
12. Introduction of Couple as Husband and Wife
13. Releasing of Doves






Thursday, May 18, 2023

Money Talks

As we hear of $2 million briberies happening in USA, it's suggested by some writers that bribery of all sorts has tended to be part of America's history. One of the better-known type of briberies have been in the matter of voting for political candidates.

Back in George Washington's time it seems that the bribery took the form of alcohol. Potential voters were plied with alcohol either to stay away from the voting booth, or to attend and cast their vote for a specific candidate.

According to one article George Washington was not in favour of all the drinking that was going on in America, and certainly was not interested in the shoddy business of plying people with drink just to get their vote. In 1755 he lost his first election big time. And apparently learned his lesson.

His second bid to get elected was very different from the first. Instead of expecting potential voters just to turn up on the day and vote for him because he was such a great guy, he did what other candidates were doing, provided them with alcohol. A lot of alcohol. 50 gallons of rum punch, 46 gallons of beer, 28 gallons of rum, and 34 gallons of wine, to be exact.

He won.